Saturday, November 1, 2008
haha, i gib birth le... surprise hor....
my bb can't wait to come out ah, hee hee... No la... let mi share my birth story ba...
On:
-25oct2008: after wrk went to hav dinner at my mum place as tml off, den went back hm ard midnight 12+.... wash up den tot wanna go slp le.... BUT.... when wanted to fall aslp, my stomach start having pain, n kept going to e toilet, was having diahrroh badly abt 6-7times on n off... keep woke my hubby up, cox i too painful, n keep gng in n out of e rm... abt 5am, my hubby try to put some oil 4 mi i feel slight better but after awhile pain back again... my hubby still ask mi is it want come out le, i sae no lei still early lei, n is nt those contraction as i'm onli 35wks onli still vry early stage n i was having diahrroh n no bleeding n water bag burst ma... as we dun noe wat can i eat to stop e diahrroh when i'm pregnant, so hubby decided to bring mi to KKH to c e doc n get medicine to eat...
-26oct2008(5am+): went to KKH, as i'm already more den 30wks pregenet i can't go to e 24hr clinic, hav to register straight inside e delivery suite area.... after register, e nurse asked mi to go into a observe rm, wer they put mi under observe 4 an hr b4 e doc will come n check mi... meanwhile they placed e monitor scan on mi, to observe baby heartbeat n whether do i have contractions... after an hr, e nurse came in n check e result, n told mi... Mdm, doc will c u later. u have to admit to e delivery suite nw, as u might be deliver today as u have close contractions....
I was like HUH??? hw come, i came in becox i gt stomach pain n diahrroh, jus wanted to c doc n tak medicine n eat, nw u tell mi, i gng to deliver.... too early ba... i onli 35wks onli to due date still gt 2mths lei.... alright nvm, like wat they sae i admited, my hubby was outside waiting for mi, e nurse told him to do e admit 4 mi 1st as i might deliver 2dae n he was also shock to hear tat 2... so hubby went to register for mi, n paid up front $750.(As we discussed i wanted to book e
A class bed so hubby can stay with mi when i'm inside. )
-ard 7+am rch e delivery suite, they ask mi change into e hospital suit, same tink, put e montior tink on mi again, den doc came in, he check mi n e result jus nw, he said: u have close contractions n is 1cm open nw. we will induce u to stop e contraction as frm ur file ur baby is onli 35wks, we will try to delay it from coming out as it's too early n 37wks in e safer zone for birth... so mi n my hubby of cox sae ok, to keep my baby safe in e tummy is of cox better den it premature out rite... so he sae i will cum in n c u in another 4hrs time, u jus rest well, no food n drink... we will gib u drip. so they induce mi on my left hand with e pipe n needle with drip, n medication.
Meanwhile hubby called hm, told my parents in law i was in hospital, they all, all so shock, huh wat happen gibing birth le ah, ok anot this n tat... blah blah blah...
So i asked hubby hw much u paid: he told mi $750 up front cash lor e A class ward. n he told mi 1 tink, nw u at tis suite is 45cents per min charge after e 1st 10hr, u sure u still wan e A class ward ah, cox dun noe u will stay here hw many dae lei n e total bill will b vry expensive... den i told him, den hw.... so discussed we changed to B2+ class ward instead...
-At 12pm doc came in again he check n sae, u r still 1cm, contractions still same... we will hav to observe again n i will ask e nurse to gib u a jab to strength e baby inside jus in case u might need to deliver early... den ok i gt another jab again on my right leg.
After tis baby went hm to change n pack some stuff for mi in case i reali deliver later or wat...
So i waited n rest....
-4pm another doc came in while hubby is nt back yet, they check mi still same 1cm but contractions seems to be nt tat close, so he told mi, ok e next round i come n c u, if u r ok n every tink is fine, we will sent u up e ward.... so i was vry happy, at least i noe i'm nt gng to deliver yet, baby is still ok no need cum out 1st... wait mature den come out...
after e doc left, hubby is back, i told him, he was hapi too n called hm to tell them i'm ok n nt gng to deliver...
-8pm doc came back, he check n sae ok we will sent u up e ward to rest... tml will check u again n monitor, if tml ok u can discharge... wow i'm so hapi, can go hm le... hee hee if tml ok... so hubby accompany mi up stayed for untill 11pm+ den he left as he cannot stay wit mi overnight le as we changed to e B2+ class ward.
27oct2008:
- early morning 8 am doc came check, as usual put e montior tink on mi again n observe...
1hr later back again, told mi, i hav to go dwn again, ur contractions nw every 7-9mins, n u r abt 1.5cm open... in tis case we will hav to observe u regularly.... alright wat to do?? gt sent dwn again to e delivery suite again, rch induce e same tink as wat is done yesterdae... msg hubby as he went hm late yesterdae must b still slping, told him i was sent dwn again... 9am he called mi, asked mi y? told him den he sae ok i'm coming after wash up...
Hubby rch at 1030+am.... waited n company mi....
-12pm doc came n check, still same, no food again... wait again... i'm reali sick n tired at tat time le... ya btw no pain le for tummy n diahrroh as medicine was given...
-4pm doc came.... as usual checked... contractions normal, but 2 & 1/2 cm opened nw... so waited again...
-8pm another doc came again, checked. contraction slightly closer n nw abt 3cm open... so he asked do u all wan to break e water bag to deliver n we induce u to fasten e contractions since u r already opening slowly n as ur result ur bb seems big size enff to be out...
We was like huh?? y... baby still premature lei, y must let it out lei... can wait ma also yesterdae tat doc sae wait.... So we sae no will c again e next round hw it goes ba...
-12am doc came checked nw still 3cm, same question... wan break.... wan break.... haix rubbish la... keep pressuring... but we still sae NO as there's no vaild reason y i sld break ma as i can wait... so he left...
-4am same again still 3cm... same question.... was like dame sianx le... y keep wan ppl break, keep asking... haix... our ans still no n sae will c tml morning hw it goes...
28oct2008:
7am hubby went hm to change....
-8am: another doc came... check nw abt 3 &1/2cm open... same question... do u wan to break? i sae can wait rite i need to discuss wit my hubby he jus went off... den she sae ok we sent u up to do a scan 1st den later den u decide. alrite went up to scan. OMG, i pulled up my dress n saw blood... but e aunty nurse sae dun wori, faster scan den go dwn.... after done was pushed back to e delivery suite....
-4pm doc again, tis time a male doc came he checked still same n he told us e scan jus nw i did show's tat bb is big n he told us 1 tink.... erm i tink u sld break la.... we mislook ur 1st scan date... u sld be 36wks by nw n expected due date is 28NOV.... Not 35wks+ nw n e due date is not 04DEC.... so if u break nw n induce, bb out should be fine, n ur bb is big....
Wow great job, i stay in 4 2day + le, nw cum tell mi tis....
My hubby gt angry n said back: u all can just jab my wife here n there, can't u all c her pain here pain there tis few daes, den nw come tell us u all mislook e dates n sae sorry... den after so many dae's of pain u sae can deliver.... wat is tis rubbish all abt...
NO NO we won't break nw, we will wait n we have no confident in ur words, pls kindly sent a senior doc over don't always sent in non experience 1 la....
-8pm: new doc came.... tis time a young lady doc came in, mi n my hubby stared at each other, snr doc? sure anot? she intro n checked mi still abt 3 n half cm.... contractions still ok.... she asked same question again.... we was like haix same again rubbish...
Tis time i asked her back, y dun u tell mi sld i break anot instead u asking mi pls...
and she did sumtink different compare to e other doc, she looked carefully at my report frm e day1 of my admit till tat day n my file's.... after awhile, she spoken... if u wan i suggest u break den, since ur bb if fine n active at 36wks nw, n big at 3kg as seen frm ur scan today, although is still consider premature but e size seems to be ok even if it's deliver most likely it will only deduct abt 300-500gm n still abt 2.5-2.6kg after birth is still fine... n if u wan to wait is jus a matter of time n e cost u spending here, so is up to u all.... we didn't actually make up e choice at tat moment, we need to discuss. we chose to wait 4 e next round of check den tell her whether or nt to break.
-12am after dicuss we decide like she sae it will be fine n we trust her n is like wat she sae if we continue to wait is jus a matter of time n cost..
so a doc came n broke my water bag, it use a long stick wit a small hook to insert into my uterus to break it. after breaking, my hubby n i tot soon bb coming out... but we r wrong doc told us hav to wait ah. nt so fast 1 hr open 1 cm... nw u abt 4cm onli still gt time... jus wait... check u on e next round. lol kind of joke rite at tat time n we so sotong... haha...
so together we waited... my pain start to come closer n closer, especially my back.... abt 3+am i'm already in vry bad labour pain, trying vry hard to tell my hubby i can tahan wit e nurse keep asking whether i wan jab e epidural ... till 4am e doc came check... abt 6 n 1/2cm le, contraction vry vry close... soon soon she sae... we will come in every 2hr nw to check u... u can use e gas if reali can't bear e pain... i'm already in hell labour pain at tat moment....
530am: a indian nurse check, she told us, ur bb head vry near e opening le... ok u can try push... my hubby den ask her no need call e doc??u sure u can?? u noe wat she reply: i professional or u... need u come ask mi... i can la. wat a bad attidue... den my hubby jus kept quiet n watch c wat she will do? while encouraging mi by my side. frm 530-615am she shifted mi left n right asking mi push but seems no effect on my baby movement, bb head is stuck at e opening... n she start to get worried... den my hus say her, wat u waiting 4 call e doc la, professional ur head, nva c my wife so pain le ah n baby head stuck there so long, faster go la... den she shut her mouth n rush out n look 4 e doc.... in mins e doc rushed in n help, asking mi to push when contraction is there... till 630 still no movement every1 seems to b panick, cox bb head stuck to long at e opening already... den doc sae ok we will try 4 another 20mins if nt have to emergency cersarean le.... as it's too long... my hubby quickly hug mi tight n sae u must try cannot gib up... 20mins pass, still same... e doc told e ppl get ready for wanted emergency cersarean den my hus quickly tell her no no... jus try once more, listen to mi can jus shift e bed up for her den let her push, ok all of them agree n help... haha reali they did... i pushed n slight movement of e baby move. try n try till 720am vry close already, e doc quickly ask e huge female doc to help, she step in, i look at her den my hus... as she's e 1 we dun like when i was once at e appointment met... jus a sec i turn over n continue to push, with her help pushing my tummy n i push like shitting...
My Baby boy is finally OUT at 0733am at 3.134kg! wat i did jus nw is worth it....
lol long sharing, guess tis is e onli post i posted so long... i'm nw on confinment n jus discharge hm for 1daes onli... baby boy is still in hospital due to jandice... haix worry...
but i'm proud to be a MOTHER!!!
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